IT'S ALL IN YOUR HEAD --- THINKING YOUR WAY TO HAPPINESS
by Stephen M. Pollan and Mark Levine. Collins, 2005
QUOTES OF WISDOM
Moral = "Happiness is a how, not a what;
a talent, not an object." by Hermann Hesse (pix)
"The search for happiness is one of the chief sources of unhappiness." by Eric Hoffer (p1)
ACKNOWLEDGMENTS (pxiii-xiv)
PROLOGUE (pxv)
1) It's all in your head (p1-22)
2) You're just where your're supposed to be (p23-47)
3) It gets better (p48-68)
4) Own your success (p69-89)
5) You don't have to go it alone (p90-111)
6) There's no time like now, so take the action (p112-131)
7) Your best is enough (p132-155)
8) The past is past (p156-177)
9) Tomorrow is too late (p178-200)
10) Out of your mind (p201-205)
EPILOGUE (p207-)
"There is that in me --- I do not know what it is --- but I know it is in me...
I do not know it --- it is without name --- it is a word unsaid,
It is not in my dictionary, utterance, symbol...
Do you see O my brothers and sisters?
It is not chaos or death --- it is form, union, plan ---
it is eternal life --- it is Happiness!"
Poem by Walt Whitman
APPENDIX --- HOW TO BE HAPPY (p209-214)
EXERCISE #1--- Your Own Philosophy of Happiness: (p209)
[1] Take out your journal and turn to a blank page
[2] List all the things and activities that make you happy
[3] Once you find yourself struggling to come up with more items, put your journal down for a minute
[4] Close your eyes, take one deep breath, and go back and read your list
EXERCISE #13 --- Living in the future: (p213-214)
[1] Take out your journal and turn to a fresh page
[2] On top of the page write the heading "Things for which I am grateful."
[3] Start by writing, "I am alive," and move on from there, line by line, filling as many pages as you need.
[4] Start by concentrating on people you love.
[5] Next, move on to places you love or loved in the past.
[6] Finally, turn to things you value most.
[7] On days when you are feeling bad, turn back to the list you have comiled and reread what you wrote.
[8] Then, after a few minutes of reflection, add some new entries to your list.
POSTSCRIPT --- An appreciation of Mark Levine for 20 years of collaboration. (p215-216)
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