YOUR SMART SELF-CONTROL MOTIVATIONAL RATING PROCESS
[1] The Smart Self-Control Motivational Rating Process allows you to concentrate on transforming your wishes, dreams and desires into realistic achievable "goals" and "plans." Now think in terms of distinguishing your greatest goals. You are "reframing" or converting your scrambled thoughts into specific goals, each of which has its assigned value in your life. You are responsible for integrating your most important specific time-oriented goals and plans into a satisfying pattern of achievements. You can develop an objective process using this or a similar series of questions to engage your optimal thinking and memory skills for deciding which of your goals can be expected to offer you the most happiness relative to other opportunities and possibilities. to devote to achieving your greatest goals? Simply evaluate your wishes, dreams and desires and think of them as "deadlines," such as shorter-term or longer-term in your self-analysis, by writing them down in separate lists under such headings as "Important" and "Urgent." Doing this activates both sides of your brain (your "left" and "right" hemispheres.) This thinking exercise helps you integrate both your thoughts and feelings as you evaluate the significance of your "greatest goals" and "best plans" within the context of your personal and social (institutional) values. Many life planning counselors advocate that you can benefit the most by distinguishing "three time zones" of goals, including your short-term goals, which are between now and three months; your intermediate goals, which are between three and six months; and your long-term goals, which are more than six months. [2] Now you can begin to distinguish your greatest goals by separating them according to a continuum of the degree of urgency in comparison to the degree of importance in your life in relation to all the other goals that you have ever thought about achieving. [3] You may want to print this page for fuller "sensory immersion" in the thinking exercise. Each of the FOUR STEPS involved in the Smart Self-Control Motivational Rating Process requires careful planning on your part after you read this. [4] You can review all of your short-term goals, intermediate-goals, and long-term goals by deciding to consider them in a relaxed condition without any disruptive interruptions and to think about the amount of time and energy it will take you to accomplish them. |
2. PREDICT WHAT YOUR EXPECTED PERFORMANCE WILL BE --- WHAT RESULTS DO YOU WANT? 3. EVALUATE YOUR PERCEIVED PERFORMANCE RESULTS NOW BY BEING AWARE OF THE FEELINGS YOU WILL HAVE WHEN YOUR GOAL OR PLAN IS ACHIEVED --- WHAT FEELINGS DO YOU EXPECT? 4. LIVE HAPPILY AND BE SATISFIED NOW BY BEING CONSCIOUS OF YOUR CHOICES AND WHETHER YOU ACHIEVED THE RESULTS YOU INTENDED: |
[5] Now think through the "SMART" criteria for rating the quality and characteristics of your personal short-term, intermediate and long-term goals. |
2. MAKE THEM MEASURABLE: 3. MAKE THEM ACHIEVABLE: 4. BE REALISTIC: 5. BE TIME AND ENERGY CONSCIOUS BY SETTING REASONABLE DEADLINES AND ADAPTING THEM: (This task completes the strategic goal planning loop by estimating the time and energy that you expect it will take to achieve your greatest goals as you decide what you choose to do.) |
[6] Now you can create your own pleasure hormones by increasing the levels of the "endorphin (happy) hormones" and balancing the levels of the "cortisol (stress) hormones" in your body as you evaluate your goals and plans. By understanding your need for a rational integrated world view, you can feel free to "flow." You can choose your own goals and make your own strategic plans for the future. You will be doing this in the context of your new ability to make better choices using your new Broadband Brainpower Mindset. You can use your time and energy more wisely for yourself and more generously for your friends and neighbors. |