FORGIVE FOR GOOD --- A PROVEN PRESCRIPTION FOR HEALTH AND HAPPINESS by Fred Luskin. HarperSanFrancisco, 2002
"Good-nature and good sense must ever join.
To err is human, to forgive is divine."
Quote by Alexander Pope
INTRODUCTION (pii-xvii)
PART 1 --- Creating a grievance (p1-59)
1) "Renting" too much "space" to disappoint (p3-11)
2) Taking things too personally (p12-20)
3) The blame game (p21-32)
4) The grievance story (p33-45)
5) Rules, rules, rules (p46-)
[1] Unenforceable rules!(p47-49)
[2] Our rules determine our feelings! (p49-51)
[3] What is a "RULE?" (p51-57)
[4] What you hope for is NOT the same as what you get! (p57-59)
PART 2 --- Forgiveness (p61-101)
6) To forgive or NOT to forgive --- that is the question! (p63-76)
7) The science of foregiveness (p77-93)
8) Northern Ireland --- the ultimate test (p94-101)
PART 3 --- Forgive for good (p103-218)
9) Forgiveness techniques for healing --- "Changing the Channel," "Breath of Thanks," "Heart Focus" and "PERT" (p105-122)
10) From "UNENFORCEABLE RULES" to wishes and hopes (p123-)
11) Your positive intention (p137-153)
12) The "HEAL" method, part 1 (p154-166)
13) The "HEAL" method, part 2 (p167-177)
14) The FOUR STAGES of becoming a "forgiving person" (p178-192 )
15) Forgive yourself! (p193-208)
16) Above and beyond (p208-218)
ACKNOWLEDGMENTS (p219-220)
A NOTE TO THE READER (p221-222)
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